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Diary of a Dogstar

27 January, 2011 - 16:08 — brenda

It's been a while since I updated here, I have started writing a diary for my dog Sirius following the progress of his agility training, which I am determined to get to competition level this year. If you are interested in following his diary here is a link to it.

http://www.topdog.ie/content.php?292-The-Start-of-an-Era.


I will update here when I write a new entry too.

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